I go through this with pagans and queer folk as well. Being a gun-owning bisexual makes me very weird to the mainstream non-hetero thought police out here. The fact I'm not a Wiccan keeps my Second Amendment stance less than strange for my faith, but I'm also not as rabid a peacenik as some people (not to mention the fact I'm not much of a socialist). The last two keep me on the fringes of both groups. RJ already noted the local poly communities having similar issues. We're not all rampaging pinko-lefties, and I am tired of feeling like I'm supposed to in order to get laid (not that I'm suffering in the sweetie department these days).