disclaimer: never been pregnant, but i was a birth assistant for one of my best friends, and was with her for almost every day of her pregnancy.
the changes that happen in the human body during preganancy are immense. there is *no way* to predict everything that is going to happen during the course of a pregnancy, or even during the course of a birth. you can prepare, but ultimately, the changes that happen are of such a complexity that just getting a good idea of what *might* happen is pretty damn good.
which is why women have the benefit of great midwives and doulas and the like, who've dealt with lots of pregnancies.
you're not an idiot. you're one of the most concientious people i know, thoughtful and careful -- just not "All Knowing". but i don't know any one who is all knowing, so, there ya go! :)
i'm sorry you're in pain. and i am hoping that you can find some good pain relievers (in non drug form) to help with it.
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Date: 2004-10-23 08:29 am (UTC)the changes that happen in the human body during preganancy are immense. there is *no way* to predict everything that is going to happen during the course of a pregnancy, or even during the course of a birth. you can prepare, but ultimately, the changes that happen are of such a complexity that just getting a good idea of what *might* happen is pretty damn good.
which is why women have the benefit of great midwives and doulas and the like, who've dealt with lots of pregnancies.
you're not an idiot. you're one of the most concientious people i know, thoughtful and careful -- just not "All Knowing". but i don't know any one who is all knowing, so, there ya go! :)
i'm sorry you're in pain. and i am hoping that you can find some good pain relievers (in non drug form) to help with it.
if it's welcome, i'm sending you a hug.
n.