rivka

The original survey didn't specify that the person said no, or that you were requiring them to do anything. It just asks if it's okay to ask someone to do something you wouldn't personally be willing to do. It also doesn't specify that that person is the only option you had it mind. You may well be asking them to do something you wouldn't yourself be willing to do but if they said no, you'd have other fallback options: Another person you could ask, hiring an outside contractor, whatever.