I'm right there with you, in that fight. I was ready too, every time I whipped out a bottle in public, to *defend* myself and my horrible choices (the rant began with "have *you* read her medical charts? Then why are you giving me advice?"), but I never actually had to use it.

Guilt is not always a sign that you're doing the wrong thing. You might be doing the very right-est thing, and be guilty because everyone around you thinks you're wrong and is judging you for it.

Our daughters are happy and healthy. Formula is not poison, formula saved their fucking lives. And I'll be damned if I let anyone make me feel bad about that.