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rivka ([personal profile] rivka) wrote2006-04-28 07:36 am
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On a parenting board I used to read, there was a woman who was so convinced that her children were gifted that she claimed her three-month-old daughter had made a verbal joke.

One of my goals is not to be that woman.

So I've felt a little funny about mentioning Alex's verbal development, which, while it's not in the "my child is the greatest genius the world has ever known" category, is not really what you'd expect of a twelve-month-old. Most kids say their first or second word about now. Alex has about a dozen: Mama, Daddy, hi, bye, no, dog, bird, cup, kitty, ball, balloon, pretty. They're not clearly articulated - "dog" is more like "gah" - but they're consistently applied. She says "gah" for dogs on the street, dogs on TV, pictures of dogs in books. A peacock at the zoo was met with "Bir'! Bir'! Pri'y!"

On Wednesday, we took the bus up to see our friends Emily and Zoe. We had never made the trip before, which involved a long winding walk across the Johns Hopkins campus. I was looking off into some trees when I heard Alex exclaim, "Ki'y! Ball!"

Kitty? Ball? Honestly, I'd been dubious about whether "kitty" was a word she said at all, given that we don't have a cat and she only encounters them in books. But she'd called a squirrel "ki'y" when we were out for a walk, and she said it about book pictures of cats, so it was tentatively on my word list. Still: a kitty and a ball on the JHU campus?

Then I looked up, and saw this:

stone lion with ball

[identity profile] xiphias.livejournal.com 2006-04-28 01:50 pm (UTC)(link)
It seems to me that a certain amount of bragging about how impressive your children are is not only acceptible, not only expected, but a biological imperative.

And, in your case, well-deserved.

[identity profile] roozle.livejournal.com 2006-04-28 02:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah. That "biological imperative" theory, I'll be relying on that.

[identity profile] xiphias.livejournal.com 2006-04-28 02:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Right. The fact that all three of your children are not only brilliant and talented, but, even more importantly, decent and good human beings with integrity and honor -- that has nothing to do with it. It's all about the biological imperatives.