As yours was the most recently updated of only *six* livejournals listing "HIV issues" as an interest, I stumbled into this mess purely by accident. Wish I hadn't- people are saying really cruel and untrue things about me, and it doesn't seem to help when I try to explain myself. I guess this reminds both of us that the internet,(and any livejournal, sans filters) *is* a purely public setting, and you have little control over who reads you, and how you are interpreted.