at first i felt a bit sorry for you, but now you're well on the path to convincing everybody that you are just a troll because you're not listening and acknowledging that you misunderstood, but instead you're still lecturing. rivka doesn't need reminding what place this is; you on the other hand need to learn some basic livejournal etiquette. so listen up; i like to lecture myself:
the same standards for behaviour don't apply to all public places and all public gatherings. if rivka sits in gazebo in a public park and tells an anecdote to people who're at a picnic with her, and you as a random bystander walking past overhear and are bothered by some off-the-cuff remark, do you think it'd be appropriate to pipe up out of the blue and let her have your words of "wisdom"? if you think that'd be obnoxious you have the social skills that you should transfer here. if you think that'd be just fine you need a remedial course in how to interact with strangers.
this is a mostly private gathering in a public place. since you seem unaware of the differences: livejournal isn't usenet or a public web forum. yup, anyone can wander by and misinterpret things, but the space isn't shared equally; instead said wanderer is a guest of the journal owner, and it behooves one as a guest to perform some rudimentary introductions, and learn something about the gathering before opening one's mouth. if one skips that step one is likely judged much more harshly, because there are people (whom we call "trolls") who specialize in stirring up the natives.
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Re: What in the world?
Date: 2006-07-31 12:11 am (UTC)the same standards for behaviour don't apply to all public places and all public gatherings. if rivka sits in gazebo in a public park and tells an anecdote to people who're at a picnic with her, and you as a random bystander walking past overhear and are bothered by some off-the-cuff remark, do you think it'd be appropriate to pipe up out of the blue and let her have your words of "wisdom"? if you think that'd be obnoxious you have the social skills that you should transfer here. if you think that'd be just fine you need a remedial course in how to interact with strangers.
this is a mostly private gathering in a public place. since you seem unaware of the differences: livejournal isn't usenet or a public web forum. yup, anyone can wander by and misinterpret things, but the space isn't shared equally; instead said wanderer is a guest of the journal owner, and it behooves one as a guest to perform some rudimentary introductions, and learn something about the gathering before opening one's mouth. if one skips that step one is likely judged much more harshly, because there are people (whom we call "trolls") who specialize in stirring up the natives.