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The bad fairies are the women who take pregnant women aside and say "And how far along are you? 16 weeks 5 days? That's when my leg exploded and they discovered the placenta was growing in my ear - you should have another scan." Or worse, "If you just relaxed your fallopian tubes would grow back" to infertile women.

You are a woman dealing with a loss. You are not seeking out pregnant women to scare them, nor imposing your long-past horror stories on their announcement of joy. And everyone knows this.