You don't need to have a baby if you don't really want one. Alex: What if someone wants to, and I don't? Me: Then you say, 'No. I don't want to.'
How wonderful to be able to have this conversation with a three-year-old, and to have her grow up with all the implied choices and empowerment being fundamental. And someday, maybe her brother will ask questions like those and get those answers too.
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Date: 2008-09-17 10:55 pm (UTC)Alex: What if someone wants to, and I don't?
Me: Then you say, 'No. I don't want to.'
How wonderful to be able to have this conversation with a three-year-old, and to have her grow up with all the implied choices and empowerment being fundamental. And someday, maybe her brother will ask questions like those and get those answers too.