f it would help, I could offer to give your minister copies of my remarks from the pulpit on Pride Sunday last year (I was one of three speakers). Or to put your minister in touch with my minister, if mine is willing. (Well, I've got two, really, but it's one in particular I'm thinking of.)

Polyamory is no more a code of "anything goes" than Unitarian Universalism. That's one of the things I told them, and a fair number of them got it.