That's what Linnea uses; Emer can manage penis but still says bulba. And Itteris. Then we have "the hole for" - the holes for wee and babies are both in the bulba, but the hole for poo isn't.
They haven't, either of them, used the word vagina more than once or twice; they are happier with vulva and holes.
Re: The conventional sex ed wisdom says....
They haven't, either of them, used the word vagina more than once or twice; they are happier with vulva and holes.