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Yesterday I bought some black-tipped shark filets for dinner. I'd never cooked shark before, so I poked around some food sites to see how other people cook it. I wound up marinating the filets for a couple of hours (in lime juice, beer, oil, garlic, cumin, parsley, salt, pepper, and dijon mustard) and then broiling them. We had couscous and sauteed zucchini on the side. It was good.

As I was cooking, I thought about my mother. She would never have bought shark filets - "I wouldn't have any idea what to do with them." Throughout my childhood, she made very simple meals of the type she'd learned about in home ec class in high school: baked chicken, mashed potatoes and gravy, and spinach. Pork chops, rice, and peas. Apple pie. Chocolate cake. She's branched out some in recent years, mostly using recipes my sister and I have given her, but the foundation of her cooking is plain food.

I've always thought of my mother as a good cook. Her baked chicken is good baked chicken, well-cooked but not dry, with crisp golden skin. Her mashed potatoes don't come from a mix, and they don't have lumps. Her piecrusts don't come from a package. Sometimes she made food I didn't like, when I was growing up, but she never made meals that didn't "turn out."

As I've gotten more involved with cooking, though, I start wondering what the definition of "a good cook" really is. I think of myself as a decent cook - I make a lot of different dishes, and most of them taste good. But not everything I make is a success. I use a lot of recipes - I tend to think of good cooks as being more inventive than that, or as cooking from general principles rather than from specific instructions. I sometimes fall back, lazily, on prepared foods - Zatarian's red beans and rice, for example, from a boxed mix. I think of good cooks as making their beans and rice from scratch. I don't use a lot of fancy techniques.

Am I a better cook than my mother, because I do more with sauces and marinades and seasonings? Is grilled fish with tropical fruit salsa inherently better food than baked chicken? Is creativity a requirement, or is the only requirement that food taste good?

I'm curious to know what other people think.


[Poll #97174]

Date: 2003-01-30 07:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wiredferret.livejournal.com
I am the cook of the three children. My mom was always encouraging about that.

We divided neatly down lines. I tried stuff I saw in cooking magazines and Joy of Cooking, and she was a Betty Crocker cook. There are still some 'plain' foods that I don't do as well as my mother, like pie crust. But one of my Christmas presents for years has been a blank check to buy ingredients for Christmas dinner. One year was the full Victorian shindig, with a goose and everything. Or the year we had buffulo filet with a bleu cheese rondelle. Last year was going to be Scandinavian smorgasboard, if dad hadn't distracted us by being in the hospital. Weird, exotic cooking. But you could always count on my mom to have some reasonably tasty, nutritious meal to serve to us when we came home, and some really divine stuff she'd perfected over the years. Her sons-in-law are devotees of her bread.

We're both good cooks. And now Sil is a good cook, and has been doing most of the cookery in our house for the last year.

Feed people. It makes them feel happy and loved. That's my rule.

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