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rivka ([personal profile] rivka) wrote2003-11-19 10:29 pm
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[livejournal.com profile] curiousangel's father had a cardiac catheterization procedure today. He'd been having chest pain, and then he had a suspect stress test, and it turns out that his left coronary artery is completely blocked.

It's possible that they can put in a stent to keep the artery open, but they're also seriously considering bypass surgery. Michael's on the phone right now with my sister, asking her questions about the different procedures. (It's good to have a doctor in the family.) He's had bypass surgery before, and angioplasty - he's had several heart attacks and an aortic aneurism - and he may be transferred to another hospital tomorrow so the same bypass surgeon can operate on him again.

We're very frightened, obviously. Michael wants to go to Memphis, but right now his father is telling him that everything is okay and he shouldn't necessarily change his travel plans. We're going to call back in the morning and find out what surgery they're going to do and when, and then I think that Michael will probably insist - unless things look a lot better in the morning than they do right now. I'll see if they'll change his plane ticket for Thanksgiving and let him travel immediately - it's a non-refundable ticket, but sometimes they find a little human kindness in their hearts. If they don't, well, that's what credit cards are for.

Families are funny things. There are probably very few people who are more different from me than my father-in-law. He's an old Arkansas farm boy, a conservative Republican and a Southern Baptist. He doesn't keep books in the house. He doesn't have intellectual interests. He loves golf. The only thing we have in common is that we both love Michael. And yet, I have come to love this man so dearly - and I know that he loves me. I think that only being in a family together gave that a chance to happen.

I know we'd both appreciate it if y'all could keep us, and Michael's father, in your thoughts right now. I'll update you when I know more.

Aye, Aye!

[identity profile] tendyl.livejournal.com 2003-11-19 08:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Sending good thoughts to Michael's dad and to your whole family. I've been that route a few times with my dad. So the best to you and yours...I'm here if you need to talk med stuff.

[identity profile] brian1789.livejournal.com 2003-11-19 08:05 pm (UTC)(link)
If you need FF miles, or with anything else I could help, just ask.

[identity profile] rivka.livejournal.com 2003-11-19 08:10 pm (UTC)(link)
I've got tears in my eyes right now. Thank you.

I think that at present we will only need FF miles if the airline decides not to allow any changes to the ticket at all, even for a fee. I don't think that's likely to happen, but if it does we'll gratefully accept your kind offer.

[identity profile] kalmn.livejournal.com 2003-11-19 08:07 pm (UTC)(link)
oh, hon. you all are in my thoughts.

if it were me, i'd go down there, but i'm paranoid on the subject.

have a hug, and give michael a hug for me.

[identity profile] mittelbar.livejournal.com 2003-11-19 08:07 pm (UTC)(link)
{soothe}

{hug}{hug}{hug}{hug}

[identity profile] micheinnz.livejournal.com 2003-11-19 08:07 pm (UTC)(link)
GoodThoughts continuing.

[identity profile] klwalton.livejournal.com 2003-11-19 08:07 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm keeping all of you in my thoughts. Here's hoping a stent will take care of the problem. And here's hoping that, if necessary, the airline changes Michael's ticket with a minimum of fuss and expense.

[identity profile] saoba.livejournal.com 2003-11-19 08:30 pm (UTC)(link)
*rummage*rummage*

I have these Good Heart-Stuff Vibes I got when my father in law had his heart attack last month. There's plenty here, take all you need.

Home and by the phone if you need an ear.

[identity profile] rivka.livejournal.com 2003-11-20 05:41 am (UTC)(link)
Home and by the phone if you need an ear.

Thanks. Right now we're trying to keep the phone line free, but we'll take all of those Good Heart-Stuff Vibes you've got.

Best wishes

[identity profile] browse.livejournal.com 2003-11-19 08:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Please give Bill and Michael my best wishes. If I can help, please don't hesitate to ask.

[identity profile] hobbitbabe.livejournal.com 2003-11-19 08:51 pm (UTC)(link)
In my prayers.
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[personal profile] snippy 2003-11-19 08:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Glad to include all y'all in my prayers.

[identity profile] ranunculus.livejournal.com 2003-11-19 09:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Sending healing thoughts to all of you.

[identity profile] dandelion-diva.livejournal.com 2003-11-19 09:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Sending loads of good thoughts & vibes, along with a wish that everything turns out okay.

Gessi
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[personal profile] lcohen 2003-11-19 09:47 pm (UTC)(link)
all good thoughts and hopes for a speedy recovery.

[identity profile] dedoc.livejournal.com 2003-11-19 10:00 pm (UTC)(link)
It's a night watch for me; call if you need to. The cell phone's good.

My thoughts and prayers, for all of you.

[identity profile] kightp.livejournal.com 2003-11-19 10:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Healing thoughts for Michael's father, calming thoughts for the two of you. And a candle on the altar tonight for you all.

[identity profile] lysana.livejournal.com 2003-11-19 10:56 pm (UTC)(link)
You're all in my thoughts. Best of luck to all of you.
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[personal profile] ailbhe 2003-11-20 03:08 am (UTC)(link)
Thinking of you.

[identity profile] janetmiles.livejournal.com 2003-11-20 03:40 am (UTC)(link)
Good Thoughts on the way for the best possible outcome, and for strength and support and minimal airline hassles.

[identity profile] minnaleigh.livejournal.com 2003-11-20 04:10 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs* to both of you. I'm thinking of you all.

[identity profile] iamjw.livejournal.com 2003-11-20 04:24 am (UTC)(link)
Goodthoughts very much on the way.

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[identity profile] therealjae.livejournal.com 2003-11-20 05:21 am (UTC)(link)
Good luck to both of you, and most of all to Michael's dad.

Chris's father had bypass surgery this year, and seems to have come through it okay, if you wanted to talk to someone about a success story.

*hugs*

-J

[identity profile] tammylc.livejournal.com 2003-11-20 05:38 am (UTC)(link)
Good luck to all of you. I'll do my part to send healing thoughts.

I've heard that the airlines are very good about accomodating medical emergencies, so I hope that's true in this case.
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Thinking of you

[personal profile] redbird 2003-11-20 05:48 am (UTC)(link)
I suspect that "we want to change this ticket away from Thanksgiving for a family medical emergency" is something the airline is likely to accept, not only for the reason but because they tend to overbook Thanksgiving travel.
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[personal profile] geekchick 2003-11-20 06:23 am (UTC)(link)
Good thoughts for all of you.

[identity profile] ruth-lawrence.livejournal.com 2003-11-20 07:09 am (UTC)(link)
You are all in my thoughts: may things turn out as well as possible.

[identity profile] trinker.livejournal.com 2003-11-20 10:02 am (UTC)(link)
Good thoughts intensified in your direction.

[identity profile] epi-lj.livejournal.com 2003-11-20 10:33 am (UTC)(link)
I'll be sending good-health vibes Michael's father's way and hand-in-there vibes your way. I hope everything works out.

[identity profile] ex-helygen254.livejournal.com 2003-11-20 07:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Good thoughts away. *hugs* for you and Michael. Let me know if there's anything else I can do.

[identity profile] tsjafo.livejournal.com 2003-11-20 08:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Prayers and good thoughts on the way.