I hate to sound like, I don't know, an eighth-grade Family Life textbook, or something - but I honestly think it comes down to whether you have shared values.
As long as you agree about which things are most important, the rest of it will come.
I know what you're saying, and you don't sound like a Family Life text book.
You've boiled down one of the most essential parts of creating a partnership is, I think. We've spent more and more time working that out, checking in with one another on what's really important, what's flexible, and where we stand on things. There's stuff I'm talking about that I don't think I've talked about in previous relationships, and gotten more to the core of things
No. You don't sound like a FLE textbook or anything. You sound like you've got an idea about the things that are really important.
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Date: 2004-02-27 01:43 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-02-27 02:48 pm (UTC)I hope I chose as well as you did.
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Date: 2004-02-28 04:43 am (UTC)As long as you agree about which things are most important, the rest of it will come.
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Date: 2004-03-01 05:59 am (UTC)You've boiled down one of the most essential parts of creating a partnership is, I think. We've spent more and more time working that out, checking in with one another on what's really important, what's flexible, and where we stand on things. There's stuff I'm talking about that I don't think I've talked about in previous relationships, and gotten more to the core of things
No. You don't sound like a FLE textbook or anything. You sound like you've got an idea about the things that are really important.
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Date: 2004-02-27 06:24 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-02-27 06:26 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-02-27 10:51 pm (UTC)