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[rivka]

I'm about ready to stop being pregnant. I am not going to go into a protracted litany of complaints here, but the shorthand version is that I am large, awkward, tired, and sore.

We went out yesterday and bought the remaining things we definitely need to have on hand before the baby is born. (Except diapers, because we are still comparison shopping for the best place to buy.) So we now have an infant-size carseat, and someplace for the baby to sleep, and a playpen/bassinet/changing table for the living room, and a breast pump, and a nursing pillow, and of course piles of cute tiny outfits and little cardboard books and so forth. curiousangel is out installing the carseat right now. So if she's born soon, we will make it. Physically, at least.

We still don't have much more news on the delivery front. I talked to an anesthesiologist over the phone, and he said that my spinal fusion was high enough that "probably" I could have a spinal or epidural anesthesia below it. I'll be taking my X-rays by the hospital on Tuesday for a consultation, but I am feeling somewhat encouraged. I really think I will be fine with a C-section if I can be conscious for it - although of course I'm still hoping that she'll be able to squeeze out without surgical help. That means hoping that I'll go into labor sooner rather than later, so any "hurry up and dilate" vibes you want to send my way would be welcome. (Although kcobweb probably thinks you should send them to her.)

Thanks, everyone, for your support and encouragement this week. I've definitely needed it.

(A few people have asked where we're registered, and the answer is here. No begging or even hinting should be implied from the provision of this information.)






(For purposes of comparison, you can see the 28 week and 20 week photos here. Also, hypothetically speaking, if I were to have some pictures which, although not at all explicit, showed a lot more skin, would you want to be on an opt-in filter to see them? If so, leave a comment or e-mail me.)

Comments

[redbird]

I would be quite happy to look at more skin on a very-pregnant Rivka. (Or, later, on a no-longer-pregnant Rivka. Or, for that matter, more clothed photos of you, pregnant or otherwise.)

[wcg.livejournal.com]

Of course I'd like to see them. The news looks generally positive, and I hope things continue in that vein.

Do you suppose St. Patrick's Day would be too soon? It's make her birthday easy to remember.

[eeyorerin]

It's amazing to see how much things have changed since I saw you just a few months ago at alt.polycon! (At the time, I thought "Yep, she definitely looks pregnant even without the second name badge on her belly" and now I'm thinking "Wow, it definitely looks like the baby is coming soon!")

I hope that the Lil'Critter hurries up and makes her arrival, for everyone's sake.

Hypothetically speaking, I wouldn't mind seeing more pictures if a person felt comfortable showing them to me.

[mittelbar.livejournal.com]

Where the hooley-hoo did all that BABY come from?!

Yeah, I'd look at your skin.

[papersky.livejournal.com]

What a big smile you have these days!

I'd be happy to see skin, though I feel slightly weird and voyeuristic saying so.

[ranunculus.livejournal.com]

I'm picturing your little girl doing gymnastics to get out. Successfully.

I'm always up for more skin!

[geminigirl]

You look radiant and lovely as always. If there were other pictures, I'd look.

And I wish for you to have the delivery that you want.

[pameladean]

Me too.

These are such joyful photos; thank you for putting them here.

P.

[elissaann.livejournal.com]

You look fabulous and gorgeous!

[ailbhe]

You look GREAT. I'd love to see more pictures. You look FABULOUS. Oh wow. I hope I looked that good. I don't think there are any pictures though.

[ratphooey.livejournal.com]

What kind of diapers are you thinking of? Because I've got 17 brand new Fuzzi Bunz (and one that was used once, then laundered to like-new condition) in a dazzling array of lovely colors that I've been meaning to sell on eBay but haven't gotten around to yet. Alexander was born early, and was too small for them, and then our dryer went kerflooey, so we're still using disposables. Anyway, I'd gladly beat whatever price you can find if you'd like them.

[ailbhe]

And I no can get to your registry. I don't know your name!

[wandra.livejournal.com]

Lovely pics. I'd be happy to see more.

[rivka.livejournal.com]

Oh dear, I thought that was a direct link. My name is Rebecca Wald.

[roozle.livejournal.com]

You look beautiful. any pictures you care to share would be OK with me.

[ailbhe]

Thanks. I can't work out how to get it to give me a direct link either because it fills in my sessionid stuff in the URL. Oh well.

Avent Isis is great! Hint and tip: As well as cool packs for between feeds and pumping, I really like hot gel pads (self-heating kind sold as pocketwarmers) for during milk output. Encourages flow and doesn't go cold and soggy like a flannel. And doesn't dribble onto the bra.

Does your set come with a batch of freezer bags for milk? That's our favourite way of storing it longer-term. Freezing Via tubs is too space-expensive for our teeny house.

A.

[zeldajean.livejournal.com]

you're one faboo lookin dr rivka! And I'd love to see pictures with more skin. :)

[roadnotes.livejournal.com]

You still have an incredibly radiant smile.

And I would like to be on the Rivka-with-skin filter.

[jonquil.livejournal.com]

Yes, the ninth month of pregnancy sucks, bites, and blows. Here's hoping you don't have a tenth month (I did, twice. Ugh.)

You look so happy, so radiantly happy. I'd love to see more of you being happy.

[jonquil.livejournal.com]

But... but... you're "rivka" in my head! The eternal fannish name problem; I am very unlikely to remember to call cofax by her real, parents-given name.

[ckd]

The magic registry number is 30909298.

[ckd]

And yes, I'd be interested in the opt-in filter as well.

[writingortyping.livejournal.com]

Yayy!! You look happy and pregnant. All is well and wonderful. I second everyone's congratulatory messages and as for skin - ?? I can just say that mommies are gorgeous.

[therealjae.livejournal.com]

She's Rivka in *my* head, too, and I've phoned her at her parents' house. :-)

-J

[firecat]

I'd want to be on the filter.

Best wishes for the easiest and safest delivery!