I wasn't assuming anything, and certainly nothing about his competence :( I was just trying to get at why you treated the idea of having a weekly night out with "Hahahahahahaha. No." So I wondered if, either consciously or unconsciously, you felt that you (as in rivka) personally had to be with Alex all the time, or Something Bad Would Happen. In some other comments you were giving the impression that you are the primary caregiver for Alex all or most of the time, and that maybe when Michael is looking after her you feel that you still need to be nearby/on call. Obviously, that isn't the case, and I apologise for anything I said that sounded like an insult.
As for what you'd use the time for, I thought the whole thing that sparked this off was your family getting sick and you having to cancel the first night out with Bill that you'd had in over a year. I just thought that while it's particularly unfortunate timing, it would have been less upsetting if you'd been able to go out a bit more often.
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As for what you'd use the time for, I thought the whole thing that sparked this off was your family getting sick and you having to cancel the first night out with Bill that you'd had in over a year. I just thought that while it's particularly unfortunate timing, it would have been less upsetting if you'd been able to go out a bit more often.
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