Quick question for my European readers...
Mar. 10th, 2007 11:08 pm...is this person smoking crack, or what?
While I agree with the general consensus that it's a bad idea to push your kids too much, I have to say that when when I was in preschool (in Europe) we all had to learn how to read, write, learn multiplication tables, long division, addition, subtraction, inequalities, a foreign language, AND we played a lot.
It was pretty much the norm to know how to read and to have basic arithmetic skills *long* before you entered elementary school, and we never felt like we weren't having fun.
So if I had a choice, yes, I'd definitely want to send my kids to that kind of a preschool. It's not about being ahead of everyone else (because, like I said, in my case, I was just average when I could read when I was three). It's about the fact that no one can learn like a child can, and you only have a certain number of years before your brain starts turning into mush. Why waste those years with nothing but play?
Is it really "just average" for Europeans to be reading at three, and doing long division before the age of five? I've always been under the impression that Europeans are more likely to have a "let children be children" philosophy than Americans, but I'll admit that I don't have much to base that impression on, besides the big progressive educational philosophies (Montessori, Waldorf, Reggio Emiliana) all being European in origin.
(Obviously, I'm not going to run out and buy a lot of flash cards if she turns out to be correct. I'm just curious.)
NB: I don't think we're talking about a radical cultural disconnect about which ages constitute "preschool," because this is someone who now lives in the United States. She never specified where in Europe she is from; she included all Europeans in this comment and her further elaborations upon it.
While I agree with the general consensus that it's a bad idea to push your kids too much, I have to say that when when I was in preschool (in Europe) we all had to learn how to read, write, learn multiplication tables, long division, addition, subtraction, inequalities, a foreign language, AND we played a lot.
It was pretty much the norm to know how to read and to have basic arithmetic skills *long* before you entered elementary school, and we never felt like we weren't having fun.
So if I had a choice, yes, I'd definitely want to send my kids to that kind of a preschool. It's not about being ahead of everyone else (because, like I said, in my case, I was just average when I could read when I was three). It's about the fact that no one can learn like a child can, and you only have a certain number of years before your brain starts turning into mush. Why waste those years with nothing but play?
Is it really "just average" for Europeans to be reading at three, and doing long division before the age of five? I've always been under the impression that Europeans are more likely to have a "let children be children" philosophy than Americans, but I'll admit that I don't have much to base that impression on, besides the big progressive educational philosophies (Montessori, Waldorf, Reggio Emiliana) all being European in origin.
(Obviously, I'm not going to run out and buy a lot of flash cards if she turns out to be correct. I'm just curious.)
NB: I don't think we're talking about a radical cultural disconnect about which ages constitute "preschool," because this is someone who now lives in the United States. She never specified where in Europe she is from; she included all Europeans in this comment and her further elaborations upon it.
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Date: 2007-03-11 04:44 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-03-11 04:48 am (UTC)I also found it odd that she seemed to think learning through play consisted entirely of free play, instead of a combination of free play and organized activities like playing games, reading books as a group and singing and dancing. That's all learning through play, but it's also directed and organized towards learning specific things. It doesn't have to be either children playing on their own or children chained to their desks.
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Date: 2007-03-11 04:49 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-03-11 04:50 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-03-11 05:05 am (UTC)I believe very strongly in the value of play. I also read to my kids and do all the standard enrichment things that parents are supposed to do, like encouraging physical play where you name body parts, games where you count things, singing the alphabet song, all the usual stuff.
Both my kids went through a phase where they could "count" in the sense that they could recite numbers, but could not count objects. Then they understood the concept, but were very sloppy about it. (Kiera is at this stage now.) Then Molly hit the point of really getting it, and was able to count really high, and now she's understanding the concept of arithmetic, though she can't necessarily tell you offhand what 7+8 is.
By the same token, before she learned to read, Molly first had to recognize all the letters as distinct shapes. Kiera doesn't recognize the letters yet, though she can sing the alphabet song and a song where you sing the sounds the letters make -- the visual distinction between the letters just doesn't seem to be there yet. Molly learned the shapes, then the sounds, then started recognizing words from when we read to her, and then started reading independently. (And then and only then started sounding words out. Go figure.)
I really believe that there has to be a certain cognitive readiness or you're wasting your time, and more importantly, your child's time. (Because your child could be doing something productive and age-appropriate, like playing with Play Doh or banging on a pot with a spoon or drawing pictures.)
Because, I also know a little girl who was adopted from China a year and a half ago, and is now a kindergartener. This little girl did not speak English when she arrived here and of course did not recognize any of the English letters. She now knows all her letters, and the sounds they make, and can sound out simple words. Because though this was new to her, she was cognitively ready for it in a way that Kiera isn't yet.
Though there are the occasional outliers, three-year-olds are generally not ready to learn long division or memorize multiplication tables, and it strikes me as utterly insane to suggest that they should be doing so.
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Date: 2007-03-11 05:11 am (UTC)on the other hand, the few crackheads i have known did not have much delusions revolving around preschool education. but i hear smoking ritalin will have weird side effects..
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Date: 2007-03-11 05:18 am (UTC)I actually can't remember much about my own preschool experience, but I can guarantee that long division and (the real kicker) a foreign language were certainly not a part of it. I remember my parents taught me basic algebra before I learned it in school, but this is probably neither here nor there.
It's possible that said crack-on-or-otherwise person went to a private pre-school in a Scandinavian country, where such goings-on are (I would assume with absolutely no information whatsoever) possibly more common than elsewhere. But I would sincerely doubt that they are the norm across the entire half-billion population of Europe.
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Date: 2007-03-11 05:38 am (UTC)When the poster was in preschool could also be a factor.
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Date: 2007-03-11 05:54 am (UTC)Long division, on the other hand - I can't even imagine how you'd teach that to a child who doesn't yet have the motor control to write clearly.
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Date: 2007-03-11 08:46 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-03-11 08:58 am (UTC)This was also many many moons ago. However, from all I hear, the situation has not changed that radically. They now start teaching a foreign language in primary -- but not in preschool. And long division... yep, that sounds like hallucinating all right...
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Date: 2007-03-11 09:15 am (UTC)When I was in pre-school, we were encouraged to read, but not taught it. When we were five, the four oldest girls in our group (one who was six, and three of us who was five) asked for math work books. The teachers humoured us and wrote us some papers with addition, and the other girls did one and got bored. I pestered them for more, until they gave up and made my parents make them for me. At the time, I did learn division (though not long division, but whatever it's called when you give the answer as an integrer and a "rest", like "55/6 is 9, rest 1") and simple equations. Whenever I tell people about this, they're surprised, so the experience is absolutely out of the ordinary.
Pre-school consisted mostly of play (both "free play" and "calm play", with one learning session a day, mostly learning the words for things. Body parts, tools, music instruments...
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Date: 2007-03-11 09:44 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-03-11 11:48 am (UTC)maybe she is from eastern europe
Date: 2007-03-11 12:23 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-03-11 12:33 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-03-11 01:13 pm (UTC)I'm in Sweden, I'm an american. I'm taking teacher education classes with a bunch of other exchange students at my swedish university.
From what I have learned of other school systems (and we just finished presenting our home system to our classmates) this person is totally smoking crack.
In Holland they have a similar sort of pre-school that we do, though a year younger - and pretty much they play and work on social interaction and sitting quietly and 'school prep' sort of stuff.
In Sweden, it's about the same, but at 6... very similar to my experience in the US (MI/OH early 80s).
Germany - similar
Japan - don't think it was covered, they mostly focused on the high school and testing aspects of their ed sys.
Poland - were anyone to come close to this, I'd bet with the polish school system, at least judging by the complexity and holy-shit level of achievement expected of their students. However, I know they don't start 'long division' that young, though they may start English and certainly do similar sorts of learning that we have in the US.
That's it for my classmates, and I can't speak for much else.
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Date: 2007-03-11 01:18 pm (UTC)-J
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Date: 2007-03-11 01:31 pm (UTC)When I immigrated to Israel after being 2.5 years in Ukrainian school, I knew all of the math material up to the end of 6th grade of Israeli school.
On the other hand, nowadays I hate math. Maybe it has something to do with a math overdose during grade school.
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Date: 2007-03-11 01:37 pm (UTC)I just have no words to describe how wrongheaded it is to think that small children's time is "wasted" if they're not memorizing early academics, rather than playing. Playing is such an incredibly rich and stimulating developmental activity! As you say, they're going to pick up a lot more that's productive from playing with Play Doh in the preschool years than from doing phonics drills with flashcards.
I make an exception, of course, for kids who genuinely have the cognitive readiness to learn academics early. (Like
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Date: 2007-03-11 02:49 pm (UTC)Re: It completely and utterly depends
Date: 2007-03-11 03:38 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2007-03-11 03:55 pm (UTC)I completely agree with the benefits of play, and I would extend it to say that even kids who do have the cognitive readiness for early academics should be encouraged to spend as much time as they'd like playing. Molly still likes playing with Play-Doh, building forts out of blankets and chairs, dressing up in costumes, etc. I'm not going to make her put her book down and play if she wants to sit and read, but I'm certainly going to provide her with a good environment for play, not just big stacks of books.
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Date: 2007-03-11 04:35 pm (UTC)