Where I've been.

[rivka]

boxofdelights' 16-year-old daughter, who goes by Nixie in boxofdelights' LJ and should probably do the same here, has been staying with us since July 28. She wanted to go to science camp this summer and it didn't work out, so instead she's attending Camp Rivka. She goes to work with me to observe a behavioral scientist in her natural habitat. On the days I'm home with the kids, I've arranged various field trips for her: she went to NASA Goddard and the National Wildlife Visitor Center with wcg, she visited the developmental psychology lab at Johns Hopkins because Colin was in a study there, and she's going to visit a lab that works on developing and testing new HIV tests. Today she has taken the train into DC to visit the Smithsonian.

On top of those things, we've crammed in extra science-related opportunities where we can. She and Michael went to a public lecture at the Space Telescope Science Institute. We all went to the Maryland Science Center. And during a brief flyby visit by my grad school friend David, who is a developmental psychologist, we put Alex through some of the classic Piagetian tasks and demonstrated that she hasn't managed to work out the details of conservation yet.

It will not shock anyone who knows boxofdelights to hear that Nixie is very, very smart. I'm enjoying her sharp analytical mind, and I'm impressed that in such a short visit I've been able to give her work on my study that calls for thought and judgment. In addition to being smart, she's also charming, poised, and easygoing. She's been great company. The kids adore her. I do worry that she's not having as good a time being here as we are having her here, although she certainly seems to be happy.

In a fun coincidence, she told me her first day here that she hopes to go to Reed. boxofdelights either didn't tell her or didn't know that I went to Reed myself. I think Nixie is exactly what Reed is looking for, and I've offered to write a recommendation letter telling them so. (I don't think our contact will be long enough to make me a useful recommender to other colleges, but I think that Reed will value an alumna opinion.)

Nixie will be here until Wednesday. After that my normal life should more-or-less resume, and you'll probably see more of me on LJ. In the meantime, I am reading your posts, but not doing much else.

Comments

[kightp.livejournal.com]

What an awesome thing for you to do for her! It sounds like you're having fun, too.

[wcg.livejournal.com]

Lisa, the observatory manager for my current mission, was very pleased by the half hour visit[1] she had with Nixie. She wishes her own kids were as interested in her work, and the advice she has to offer.


[1] I asked Lisa if she could spare 5 minutes out of her very busy high powered NASA manager's schedule. She carved out half an hour.

[laurarey.livejournal.com]

I should offer a "Canada" camp once we get moved into the new place.

[mizchalmers.livejournal.com]

Hee! One of my more craven secret parenting goals is to raise the girls to be what Reed is looking for...

[jenett]

Oh, this is incredibly excellent.

I'd also suggest that it wouldn't be out of line for you to consider writing a letter of recommendation in general: doing this kind of thing shows incredibly initiative and intellectual curiousity on her part, and it's just the kind of thing that colleges often want to see.

It wouldn't be appropriate for all apps, but if the app has a place for additional information or letters of support from people who have experience with her, keep it in mind.

[marydell.livejournal.com]

That sounds awesome, for her as well as for you.

[writingortyping.livejournal.com]

Wow. What a cool experience for all of you!

[boxofdelights]

I do worry that she's not having as good a time being here as we are having her here, although she certainly seems to be happy.

Dear Rivka, I wish you could know how much she enjoyed being with you. Every time I talked to her, she was really happy.

Call on me as if I were your sister, dear one.