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Developmental update: Colin at 12 months.
Colin walked partway across the study this evening - a remarkably steady six- or eight-foot journey. He must have known that I had a developmental update in the works.
This has been a long time coming. He's been so steady on his feet: standing independently, reaching down to pick something off the floor from a standing position, even dancing while standing. A few times he's taken a few little side-steps, edging himself along crabwise. Then, suddenly, this (relatively) long, assured walk. He's walking.
He's been preoccupied with the large-motor stuff in general. The latest obsession is climbing onto the furniture. We have a couple of child-size straight chairs, and Colin likes nothing better than to climb on, crow at his achievement, climb off, and then climb on again. He can almost get up on the low futon in the study and the low rocking chair in the living room. He cries with frustration when he can't. If we give him a boost, or he finds a toy to stand on, he gives us his biggest grin and his crowing laugh. He absolutely loves to climb into the little wagon we gave him for Christmas. I thought he'd like to push it, and he does, but he likes to get in and out of it even more.
Colin also loves to open and close doors. Cabinets and drawers, too, but doors are his favorite. Most of the doors in our house don't latch properly, and he patiently works his fingers into the cracks until he can swing them open. Then he's very proud. And he should be; he's ingenious and persistent, and it pays off. He can easily open things like Rubbermaid storage containers with snap-down handles.
He's developed a real love of books. His first love was Moo, Baa, La La La, and in honor of that, I guess, he consistently says "lalala" when he wants to be read to - no matter which book he's brandishing. He likes the same book read over and over and over. Sometimes he is so excited about rereading that he can't wait for us to finish the first read, and he snatches the book, closes it, and hands it back over for us to begin again. When he settles in to be read to he grins and clasps his hands in front of him. It's unbearably cute.
He's very focused on the pictures in books. Alex, as an infant, was much more focused on the words. When Colin is being read to, you can watch his eyes intently scanning the pictures.
He loves dolls. Baby dolls get hugged and cuddled and touched and brought to an adult for cuddling. But he also loves Alex's tiny Polly Pocket dolls. I've seen him hold one of them in one hand and a dress in the other and sort of bash them together; it's clear that he knows that you're supposed to dress them. He also likes to play with toy vehicles, balls, nesting cups, and stacking rings. And anything of Alex's, really.
He has three clear and recognizable words: Dada, Mama, and A-leh (Alex). I also think of lalala as a word because it definitely means something consistent. He is also good with communicative gestures: he points and gazes intently when he wants something, shakes his head "no" when you get something wrong, tugs on the bottom of my shirt when he wants to nurse.
He nurses enthusiastically, but these days he's also very much about regular meals of table food. He has strong opinions about getting to try everything that we eat; he'll point and make urgent noises until we hand over bits of pork roast or whatever else we initially thought was unsuitable for babies. He's started to demand to have his bowl or plate set on his tray so he can help himself. He hasn't eaten baby food for a while now. Interestingly, he's also resistant to taking bottles of breastmilk from our nanny. I am psyched about that, because if we can transition him to taking cow's milk from a cup when I'm at work I can STOP PUMPING. He already drinks water well from a sippy cup.
For all these mature eating habits, he's still marching steadily along at the 10th percentile for weight, 50th for height. He's a little string bean. Today was his one-year-old well baby visit, and he weighed 18 pounds, 10 ounces.
He's been sick for a week or two, so that's probably partly why he's less unfailingly happy than he was before. But he's also become less laid back. He has a definite will, and he cries when he's thwarted. He is still super affectionate and snuggly, though.
He still thinks Alex absolutely hung the moon.
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He is obviously healthy and thriving. I make sure that we're offering plenty of calorie-dense foods high in protein and fat, and I don't worry about his size.
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The URL says it all, really.
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Since our kids are six weeks apart, I find your updates fascinating. Children are all so different in how they develop.
Your son is really a cutie. I think if Rachel and he ever meet, that cuteness will overcome the entire world. :)
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I do find the differences interesting, and I like to try to tease out the effects of birth order, innate temperament, etc. Colin is probably as laid-back as he is in part because he's a second child and has had to conform to Alex's schedule, likes & dislikes, etc. But he's also much more tolerant of novelty than Alex was at his age, and novelty avoidance is a biologically-mediated temperament factor. So that also goes into the equation.
(And BTW, you know that there aren't many kids like Rachel, developmentally, right? She is way advanced.)
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She's a smart kid. However, from having read your postings about Alex, I'm think your phrase of "we're doomed" will be echoed in our house. :)
She's going through some pretty serious separation anxiety now which I'm hoping will pass in another couple of weeks.
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Here's hoping you can stop pumping soon.
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Oh, she'll ask for food off our plates, and sometimes even raise it to her mouth, but then she'll laugh and hand it back.
Colin sounds basically adorable.
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Does SK like to feed you? Colin looooves to pick a bit of food off his tray and hold it out to us. He doesn't take well to polite refusal, either.
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I think we both let her feed us once, and then realized that if we let that go on she'd only do that, because yeah, she does love it. So we went to a laughing "no, *you* eat it!", which works.
Must . . . do . . . work . . . so I can squeeze out time for a developmental post for her tonight.
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